I love you so much. I've been reading about this issue recently. People hold up one tragedy against another, screaming "Where'e the outrage?!" to others who dare to try to spread awareness about a different injustice. All this serves to do is further alienate us as humans. And we are in a time when we desperately need to come together if we and the planet are to survive.
MK, I am so sorry that you have to put up with people who really don’t understand reality! And it’s only reinforced by much of our country unfortunately. I’m much older than you but I have decided to ignore the things I don’t want or need to hear and try to focus on the good things. There is still a lot of good in our world and we just have to look for it. You are one of the good things so don’t let negative people influence you or your writing. Just be your wonderful, kind, caring self.❤️
A news ticker. 👀💀While we don’t agree on all things, it shouldn’t matter. I’m not sure how many DMs you get, but this is all similar to how people “demand” to know the political stances of their favorite artists, actors, etc..
I’ll use Taylor Swift as an example. People who disagree with her stances, burned her music, merch and tried to cancel her. I don’t agree with her either, but she’s an entertainer, not my friend. People nowadays act as if YOU owe them something. You don’t. You’re taking care of yourself and your family first, as you should. TS says: “If a <man> talks sh|t,” then I owe him nothing.” Just insert whatever you want in the boxes and have a good weekend. :)
They were just trolling you, obviously. I'm so sorry. What I love about you the very most (and there's a lot) is that you write from your heart, when the inspiration strikes. In my mind, that's the very best sort of writing, and it resonates deeply with so many of us. It could be because I'm the type of person that can only be creative when I'm in the mood and inspired. I could never own a business where I had to produce "on demand". It would be too much like work, and my body and soul would resist. :)
Your response was perfection! It is possible that the person was “phishing” for some indication of which “side” your sympathies lie. But anyone who has been paying attention to your writing has to know that your heart is with the people of both sides who are desperately trying to survive the conflict. You have a big heart that needs protecting and boundaries. I’m glad you let her and everyone know that even you have boundaries and a full life. ❤️
LISTEN UP - I'm not yelling; I just really need to get your attention. Love you and been following you for a long time. I worry about you. I love Jesus and immediately after I read what you wrote above I was moved to write to you here. At first I tried to let it go, but I couldn't. So here goes. I felt threatened for you. Our country is a mess and there are crazy people out there. Please be careful what you say and show. If you show pictures of your kids make sure nothing in the background identifies where you are. I love what you write, but please leave out where the kids are and that you're alone for the weekend. I love that you're an open book...maybe a wee bit too open. I worry. Keep you and the kids safe. I prayed before I wrote this; maybe that's something you can do before responding to someone who isn't happy with you. Maybe "I'm so sorry; I've been offline," would have been enough. Typed words are somewhat without feeling. We can seem cold and uncaring even when we aren't. I'm not scolding you, I'm just saying I care and pray for you and your family's safety and happiness.
I agree with everything you wrote, but my guess is that message came from a place of extreme hurt. We Jews have been hurting since we learned that terrible news and I know I have been very close to lashing out in anger at people on social media.
I so agree with this. Social media has so many great benefits but this interaction is something we have not yet figured out as a society. Thank you for putting into words what I’ve been feeling for a very long time.
We are not obligated to allow others into our personal space. We are individuals who have lives beyond social media. I know that is difficult for some to understand, but it's true.
You are not deemed the person who reacts to devastating news. That person needs to have some reflection time, get off social media for a bit, and participate in life.
I love you so much. I've been reading about this issue recently. People hold up one tragedy against another, screaming "Where'e the outrage?!" to others who dare to try to spread awareness about a different injustice. All this serves to do is further alienate us as humans. And we are in a time when we desperately need to come together if we and the planet are to survive.
Your response is being true to yourself and your family. You don’t owe anyone anything.
Glad you stepped up for yourself. ❤️
Expectations are a set up for disappointment.
MK, I am so sorry that you have to put up with people who really don’t understand reality! And it’s only reinforced by much of our country unfortunately. I’m much older than you but I have decided to ignore the things I don’t want or need to hear and try to focus on the good things. There is still a lot of good in our world and we just have to look for it. You are one of the good things so don’t let negative people influence you or your writing. Just be your wonderful, kind, caring self.❤️
Love you more everyday. Ignore the malcontents. You do you. You are a blessing to this world.
You do you, Boo. You owe nothing.
Good for you! You are 100% correct. Taking care of yourself and your family 👍
A news ticker. 👀💀While we don’t agree on all things, it shouldn’t matter. I’m not sure how many DMs you get, but this is all similar to how people “demand” to know the political stances of their favorite artists, actors, etc..
I’ll use Taylor Swift as an example. People who disagree with her stances, burned her music, merch and tried to cancel her. I don’t agree with her either, but she’s an entertainer, not my friend. People nowadays act as if YOU owe them something. You don’t. You’re taking care of yourself and your family first, as you should. TS says: “If a <man> talks sh|t,” then I owe him nothing.” Just insert whatever you want in the boxes and have a good weekend. :)
They were just trolling you, obviously. I'm so sorry. What I love about you the very most (and there's a lot) is that you write from your heart, when the inspiration strikes. In my mind, that's the very best sort of writing, and it resonates deeply with so many of us. It could be because I'm the type of person that can only be creative when I'm in the mood and inspired. I could never own a business where I had to produce "on demand". It would be too much like work, and my body and soul would resist. :)
Very well said.
Your response was perfection! It is possible that the person was “phishing” for some indication of which “side” your sympathies lie. But anyone who has been paying attention to your writing has to know that your heart is with the people of both sides who are desperately trying to survive the conflict. You have a big heart that needs protecting and boundaries. I’m glad you let her and everyone know that even you have boundaries and a full life. ❤️
LISTEN UP - I'm not yelling; I just really need to get your attention. Love you and been following you for a long time. I worry about you. I love Jesus and immediately after I read what you wrote above I was moved to write to you here. At first I tried to let it go, but I couldn't. So here goes. I felt threatened for you. Our country is a mess and there are crazy people out there. Please be careful what you say and show. If you show pictures of your kids make sure nothing in the background identifies where you are. I love what you write, but please leave out where the kids are and that you're alone for the weekend. I love that you're an open book...maybe a wee bit too open. I worry. Keep you and the kids safe. I prayed before I wrote this; maybe that's something you can do before responding to someone who isn't happy with you. Maybe "I'm so sorry; I've been offline," would have been enough. Typed words are somewhat without feeling. We can seem cold and uncaring even when we aren't. I'm not scolding you, I'm just saying I care and pray for you and your family's safety and happiness.
Peace,
Patty
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻. Your response was perfect. Nuf said.
A perfect response. Much love always to you, MK.
I agree with everything you wrote, but my guess is that message came from a place of extreme hurt. We Jews have been hurting since we learned that terrible news and I know I have been very close to lashing out in anger at people on social media.
I so agree with this. Social media has so many great benefits but this interaction is something we have not yet figured out as a society. Thank you for putting into words what I’ve been feeling for a very long time.
People are weird, especially on social media.
We are not obligated to allow others into our personal space. We are individuals who have lives beyond social media. I know that is difficult for some to understand, but it's true.
You are not deemed the person who reacts to devastating news. That person needs to have some reflection time, get off social media for a bit, and participate in life.